22.  CHASING THE LOVE HIGH

As the majority of souls on Earth have lost their connection to their Love Source - their Higher Self - they feel a sense of emptiness and lack of love inside.  As a society we have been conditioned to "chase after" love as an anti-dote to our own lack of love we feel inside.

What most people do not understand, is that you can only BE the quality of LOVE.  You cannot TAKE Love - or Heaven - by force, by "expecting" other people to drip feed it into you like a life support system.

If you are mean or critical or judgmental or unforgiving or intolerant - which are all qualities of ANTI-LOVE - then you will become the Quality of Anti-Love.  The more you become the quality of anti-love, the more YOU make the choice to shut off the flow of Love and Light coming into your soul from your Higher Self.

It does not matter how many love affairs you have, how many "perfect" partners you have or family and friends around you who give you love - the reality is that it will never be enough to change the fundamental quality of who you are choosing to be: Anti-Love.

You will keep on feeling critical, judgmental, unforgiving and intolerant and you will keep on chasing love and expecting other people to "temporarily" give you a "taste of love".  You will taste the love, but you will never become the Quality of Love, unless you make the conscious decision to become this quality.


23.  THE CURSE OF PERFECTION

Souls who "expect" that everything in their life must always be perfect set themselves up for a life of disappointment and suffering.  The reality is life on Earth is NOT perfect.  The Earth is a school ground for souls to master qualities such as tolerance, acceptance, forgiveness and patience.


In order for you to be tested as a soul on each of these areas, you must face many situations in your life that will "appear" intolerable, unacceptable, unforgivable, and frustrating.  For how else will you be able to demonstrate that you have mastered these qualities?  You are here to master and become:

Calmness: In the face of Calamity
Tolerance: In the face of Difficulty
Acceptance: In the face of Imperfection
Forgiveness: In the face of Trespass
Patience: In the face of Setbacks
Love: In the face of Rejection

Can you now see that: calamity, trespass, difficulty, setbacks, rejection and imperfection ALL must exist on our spiritual path on Earth - in order for us to master these higher qualities of Love?


Souls who "expect" to avoid these tests "reject" that life should be this way.  They "reject" their life lessons and their own Life Plan to master these qualities - and they suffer more than any other.  They truly believe they can "control" life and avoid pain, suffering and difficulty.  Yet they only make life harder for themselves when they try.  If they only swam "with the tide", instead of fighting against it, they would consume much less energy and be far more at peace.


24.  OVERCOMING FEAR: A HOUSE OF CARDS

The majority of people on Earth spend their entire lives living in fear of situations or events that in 95% of cases never happen.  And even in the 5% of cases that do happen, the situation is not nearly as bad as thought, and much growth has occured from the experience.


A fear is: An expectation that a person, event, thing, or outcome will: a] take away your power and control, b] harm you, and c] create more fear within you.

Once a fear has been created within the "Unreality Zone" of your mind as a result of your "expectations", it is not simply a matter of stopping the exceptations for the fear will still reside in the "Unreality Zone".

You must face your fears.  You must visualize - either through a meditation or simply closing your eyes and using your imagination - the worst case scenario of what you could imagine happening to you.

Visualization Exercise:  In your mind, imagine and experience the worst case scenario of what it is you are afraid of.  Notice all the details of this experience.  Visualize yourself touching the scary details of this experience in your mind and become "as one" with this experience.  Then say quietly, but out loud: "I AM PEACE.  I AM PEACE.  I AM PEACE" over and over for at least 5 minutes while picturing this scary scene in your mind.

Then write in a journal exactly what it is that you are afraid of experiencing.  Write about the worst case scenario, how you would be feeling, why you would be feeling this way.  Pay special attention to your feelings and exactly what is in this scene that is causing you to feel this way.

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1.  THE ILLUSION OF SEPARATION IS PART OF OUR SPIRITUAL PURPOSE   2.  BELIEVING IN THE ILLUSION OF SEPARATION  3.  THE BIRTH OF THE EGO HAPPENED GRADUALLY  4.  THE CREATION OF THE 12 PARTS OF THE LOWER SELF EGO  5.  TWIN PARTS OF THE LOWER SELF EGO   6.  YOUR HIGHER SELF, THE MATERIAL UNIVERSE AND YOU  7.  THE CREATION OF YOUR SOUL, YOUR IDENTITY AND THE FOUR LEVELS OF YOUR MIND  8.  THE EXPERIENCE OF SEPARATION: GUILT, MISTAKES AND SELF-FORGIVENESS  9.  MASTERING FORGIVENESS: A TWO-STEP PROCESS  10.  GIVING YOUR LOWER SELF EGO PARTS A VOICE  11.  GIVING YOUR LOWER SELF EGO PARTS NEW INFORMATION  12.  CHALLENGING INACCURATE LOWER SELF EGO BELIEFS  13.  THE BATTLE BETWEEN THE HIGHER SELF AND LOWER SELF EGO  14.  TRANSFORMING THE LOWER SELF EGO USING HIGHER SELF MEDITATION  15.  EXPECTATION IS THE CAUSE OF ALL FEAR - ALL WORRY  16.  EXPECTATION = SUFFERING  17.  EXPECTATION AND THE LOWER SELF EGO PARTS  18.  PLAYING THE VICTIM: "EXPECTING" LIFE OWES YOU  19.  THE "NEEDY" ADDICTIVE PERSONALITY  20.  CHASING THE HAPPINESS HIGH   21.  CHASING THE PRAISE-RECOGNITION HIGH  22.  CHASING THE LOVE HIGH  23.  THE CURSE OF PERFECTION  24.  OVERCOMING FEAR: A HOUSE OF CARDS  25.  THE BUDDHA CONSCIOUSNESS: AN OVERVIEW  26.  HOW DOES BUDDHA CONSCIOUSNESS DIFFER TO CHRIST CONSCIOUSNESS?  27.  USING MEDITATION TO ACHIEVE COMPLETE NON-ATTACHMENT: BUDDHAHOOD  28.  REMOVING THE "UNREALITY ZONE" IN YOUR MIND BY REMOVING "ALL" EXPECTATIONS  29.  TUNING YOURSELF TO THE TRUE REALITY OF YOUR LIFE  30.  A BELIEF IN SEPARATION IS THE CAUSE OF ALL SUPERIORITY AND INFERIORITY  31.  "NOT" BELIEVING IN SEPARATION IS A TEST EVERY SOUL MUST FACE  32.  MAIN REASONS SOULS BELIEVE IN ILLUSION OF SEPARATION  33.  A BELIEF IN SEPARATION AND THE IDENTITY MIND  34.  SEPARATION = HATE  35.  BELIEF IN SEPARATION AND THE LOWER SELF EGO PARTS  36.  THE ANTI-CHRIST USES 8 TOOLS TO KEEP YOU TRAPPED IN THE "ILLUSION OF SEPARATION"  37.  ANTI-CHRIST TOOL TO KEEP YOU TRAPPED: YOU ARE NOT GOOD ENOUGH  38.  ANTI-CHRIST TOOL TO KEEP YOU TRAPPED: CRITICIZING AND COMPLAINING  39.  ANTI-CHRIST TOOL TO KEEP YOU TRAPPED: KEEPING HATE BOTTLED UP  40.  ANTI-CHRIST TOOL TO KEEP YOU TRAPPED: UNFORGIVENESS  41.  ANTI-CHRIST TOOL TO KEEP YOU TRAPPED: JUDGING OTHER SOULS AS "NOT LIKEABLE"  42.  ANTI-CHRIST TOOL TO KEEP YOU TRAPPED: JUDGING OTHER SOULS AS "LIKEABLE"  43.  ANTI-CHRIST TOOL TO KEEP YOU TRAPPED: COMPETITION  44.  ANTI-CHRIST TOOL TO KEEP YOU TRAPPED: FINDING FAULT IN OTHER SOULS  45.  THE CHRIST CONSCIOUSNESS: AN OVERVIEW  46.  THE CHRIST CONSCIOUSNESS AND THE LAWS OF CAUSE & EFFECT AND KARMA  47.  THE CHRIST CONSCIOUSNESS AND THE COSMIC MIRROR  48.  THE CHRIST CONSCIOUSNESS AND THE OMEGA CONTRACTING FORCE  49.  COMING INTO ONENESS WITH YOUR ENEMIES  50.  FORGIVE YOUR ENEMIES  51.  COMING INTO ONENESS WITH YOUR HIGHER BEING  52.  THE LADDER OF CHRIST CONSCIOUSNESS  53.  THE IMPORTANCE OF DISCOVERING YOUR LIFE LESSONS AND KARMA  54.  RE-FRAGMENTING YOUR SOUL AND REMOVING NEGATIVE ENTITIES  55.  ADVANCED TEACHINGS AND STUDY  56.  DOWNLOADABLE PDF VERSION OF THE EGO COURSE